By Kabir BhatiaBeing padded up to beat the chill can play a spoil sport in your sex life. If your partner and you are experiencing a reduced drive this winter, try these sure fire tips to bring the sizzle back into your bedroom.
1) The winter investment
If staying in bed for long hours is your idea of winters, you might as well get some action there. Invest in an electric blanket or a ‘light down’ quilt, roll yourself and your mate in and you can winter-proof your sex life. Besides, you won’t get called a lazy slob for being in bed all day.
2) The hot tub
This is a fail proof tip to spice up your sagging sex life. Run a warm shower or a hot tub, bring out those bathing salts if you have a tub or simply work up a steam under the shower. In this action sequence, we highly recommend a role for TMC’s black pepper and bergamot
body wash that has an amazing masculine scent and can work up a nice lather.
3) For long sexy nights
Nothing gets the ball rolling than a crackling fire. Light up a fire (or candles if you don’t have a fireplace), place a love couch (or a cozy seat for two) by its side, play a tune, line up your drinks and spend time cosying up to get in the mood. A good amount of foreplay will certainly stoke the fires.
4) The heat game
Peeling layers of clothing, braving the chill and putting clothes back on is a primary reason for sagging love interest in winters. Don’t let the layers smother your sex life. Make undressing a fun game by doing it for each other alternately, and set a count of ten (or less) for taking off each clothing item. Whoever fails the game gets awarded a naughty punishment.
5) Hot winter treat
You will have to take the initiative in this one but you also stand to get richly rewarded. Warm up a bottle of massage oil by placing it in hot water for a few minutes, open the bottle and let the oil drip straight on your partner’s skin, followed by a rub. Warming wax (that melts when rubbed on the skin) is another great option for a stimulating experience.
6) High and happy
Beat winter bedroom blues with a nightcap or two. Mulled wines
or liqueurs can be had on a full stomach, will warm up your insides, give you a pleasant buzz and loosen up any reluctance to turn up the heat between the sheets.